So Brian, what exactly is Nightgame Monthly?
Well before i explain, let me give you my definition of what i mean by Nightgame.
Nightgame to me means: To converse with people in a bar, nightclub, party or street.
Including approaching, interacting and attracting quality females with no dependence on the outcome.
In other words, TO BE SOCIABLE AND FRIENDLY TO EVERYONE!
That is my definition, other people may label Nightgame as something completely different but i couldn’t care less how they define it because this is how i label it!
So, again Brian, what IS Nightgame Monthly?
Well, this page will be all about my monthly Nightgame activities and experiences. Just like the rest of this site, i am going to be accountable to myself and anyone who reads this. I will go about my everyday life and give a summary of 2 or 3 of my best and worst interactions with whoever i meet, once a month.
Now, i say once a month but the chances are, it will be once every few months. I don’t drink alcohol at all, i’m not into parties or any of that nonsense and i’m no fan of large crowds, so you may be wondering, “Why bother?”
Well, i will still be going out into this urban jungle from time to time and as i’m documenting my Daygame exploits, i might as well also document my occassional Nightgame exploits too. 🙂
This will be an on going process along with everything else on this site and i think a once every few months summary will be more than enough to keep me going for now.
Some months will be quiet, where i don’t hit the bright lights at all and other months busy because i live right on the edge of a small town, so the occasional visit to “The Dark Side” will occur.
Also, before i go any further, i must stress that the quality of females in my home town is very poor. That’s not to be derogatory to the local girls, i’m just stating the facts. In my entire adult life in this town, i’ve probably only met a handful of absolute TOP QUALITY, classy ladies when i’ve been out and about who i would even think about having a long term relationship with.
I’ve met more than that each time i travel abroad regardless of where i go. That probably answers the question of where my future lies. 🙂
Don’t get me wrong, there are lots of pretty and physically attractive girls in my town but most of them tend to spoil themselves when they open their mouths. Either swearing, aggressive or princess behaviours tend to leave their lips most of the time even when intelligent, decent guys are trying to converse with them.
There are some lovely, friendly girls around but they are few and far between and one thing i can’t stand in anyone is an unnecessary bad attitude when someone is just trying to be friendly. It costs nothing to be nice. 🙂
It’s no wonder certain girls are single and the quality girls are in relationships, stands to reason.
Having said all of that…
MY ULTIMATE GOAL is to have fun and find that one VERY SPECIAL girl wherever she is in the world, to spend my life with, who has all or most of the qualities i look for in a female. (See my Daygame Monthly page)
It is NOT about how many one night stands i can have or how many incoherent drunken women i can pick up at 3am. I’ll leave that sort of behaviour to the immature, little boys of society while i attract the quality women of the world. I’ve let more of those silly kind of girls go than i’ve had cold breakfasts. Don’t want them and DON’T need them! 😉
I’ve been single quite a while now and loving every minute of it and am in no hurry for a serious girlfriend or relationship at the moment but as i said earlier, if that girl does come along and blows my… mind 😉 then i am open to that possibility.
I’m a man with options when it comes to the dating world, so a girl will need to be VERY SPECIAL for me to even get her number. I will NOT tolerate less than acceptable behaviours or anyone i feel is not worthy of my time. I NEVER settle for second best in anything because i know i can get and be the best, no matter how long it takes.
I would rather get fitter or learn new things than spend time with a girl i’m not attracted to, physically or emotionally. So the interactions i do have, you can rest assured will be with real quality girls worthy of my time.
I’m not saying i’m better than anyone else, what i am saying is, unlike most men, i have VERY HIGH standards in everything i do and i refuse to waste time on anyone or anything that doesn’t improve my life for the better. Time wasters need not apply no matter how beautiful you are! 🙂
Most of my interactions with the outside world for Nightgame Monthly will be purely for entertainment purposes only. I am out to have fun regardless of whether i meet attractive girls or not. So just because i’m not writing about regular dates or numbers i’m getting, doesn’t mean i’m not out there having a laugh.
Like i’ve said, i will only ask girls for meet ups or numbers if i’m VERY attracted to them otherwise i won’t bother and living in a small town i’m not exactly overwhelmed with quality options. 🙁
For some reason, i’ve also been told a few times by girls that ‘i look the marrying kind!‘ They’ve assumed i was married before i even spoke to them and were shocked when i said i wasn’t and never had been. No idea why they thought i was married but hey, women are strange at times. Hahaha!
I have no immediate plans to get married but if that special girl comes along and it feels right, then yeah, i would do it. You gotta be extra, extra special though! 😉
I definitely am the marrying kind AND the dating kind AND the wild, crazy spontaneous sex kind. You girls have just got to know what you want me for! 🙂
ALSO NOTE: I won’t be using any real names or major descriptions of the girls i meet on Nightgame Monthly because it wouldn’t be fair if any of them read this and see themselves written about. They’ll probably have a good idea i’m talking about them when they read some of the stories however but naming names is a step too far.
I look forward to keeping myself and you readers entertained.
Let’s get it on! 🙂
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